I don't know, I feel like tuxes just look really stuffy and more suited for business than an actual wedding. You're trying to celebrate love and marriage, and no matter how feminine you make your tux, it just looks uptight. There's actually a ton of wedding 'don't!' lists that have wearing a tux as a female, but do what you want. I just think you should go with a dress.
Yes, but not a white one.
Absolutely! but make it look feminine. You don't want to give the wrong "impression" definitely wear heals and jewelry.
yh but try and girl it up a bit.so people don't wonder (like get a lighter colour #light blue or white)
